How To Choose A Perfect & Delicious Wedding Menu

Aaron Collingwoog
4 min readJun 1, 2021


Your big day is important, but so are the people who attend it. Make sure you impress your guests with mouth-watering culinary delights.

Self-confessed foodie couples pay more attention to their menu card, but it’s natural to feel overwhelmed when figuring out what to add to your menu card. The reason is simple; there are unlimited choices.

You may avail of in-house catering services or bring someone else in. You and your couple may desire a complete five-course dinner served with wine and ended with coffee and petit, or you may want to embrace the unique culture of your partner; you’ll quickly find venues and caterers offering all of this and much more.

What type of food do you prefer?

for dinner.? Or you generally find it tricky to pick few things when the options are unlimited?

If this is not a problem for you, then you’re safe. But in case you relate to this situation, you’ll find planning your wedding menu even harder.

But that’s OK; this guide will help you with this. You have to answer some questions and you’ll be able to narrow down your choices. Do you like something heavier, something light, or completely indulgent? Do you prefer more spices, seafood, or totally vegetarian cuisines? Do you like keeping it all simple or go for a fusion of different cultural food?

Do you or your fiancé often ask each other at a restaurant what to order The most straightforward way to shorten your list is to start with what you and your spouse-to-be love? If you aren’t a fish fan, then don’t load your menu with fish items. Add only one main course of fish to the menu because your wedding event isn’t the best day to do any experiment. Plus, you both deserve to enjoy your first meal as a married couple.

Will your guests like it too?

While I definitely believe that you shouldn’t care about what others think and put yourself first on your big day, you can’t ignore the fact you’ll be spending a hefty amount to feed everyone who attends it.

If you want to make sure that you spend your budget right, choose dishes wisely that all of the guests or at least most of them will like. Therefore, I suggest you avoid food that contains high oil content or avoids stronger flavors.

There’s nothing worse than sitting down quietly as a guest, knowing that you can’t taste the delicious dishes.

If you don’t have an idea about their liking, it’s also worth asking. You may also get to know if the guests have any dietary requirements or allergies. By knowing this beforehand, you can share your needs with the caterer.

Know the importance of wedding food tasting is

It is when you taste the menu items with your caterer before finalizing them for your event.

It is highly advised to arrange this small activity before making the final decision. Tasting the menu beforehand gives you plenty of time to eliminate or adding anything to your menu. You’ll be certain of what the food will look like.

Don’t be afraid to ask the person in charge for any changes; they’ll be happy to improve the customer experience if it only requires little alterations.

Don’t ignore what’s trending

The key trend you’ll see is that interactive food stations will no longer be available, at least until the pandemic is under control. The traditional sit-down dinner setting with white gloves service is returning. Also, out of choice is self-serve cuisine stations and passed hors d’oeuvres during cocktail hours.

Take advice

It’s always a good idea to ask for recommendations or any advice from friends and people you know. You can also consult with a caterer or chef because they are experts and have dealt with any couples.

In summary

You definitely need a guide to figure what to add to the big day menu when you could have almost anything. Once you finalize your fantastic wedding menu, forget about it until the final day. Your guests would enjoy every bit of your special day.

Author bio

Bisli Vazquez is a full-time wedding planner, coach, social events floral, and event designer who loves to see couples happy on their big day. She has played a significant role in bringing thousands of bride’s vision to life. Her book “Never the mother of the bride” is all about making a wedding day full of glamor and happiness. If you are looking out for hiring a reliable wedding planner that can provide you a personalized experience, she is the right expert to contact.